So it’s my 4th day in India and so far it’s been such an incredible experience… the people here are so friendly and hospitable, and happy, even though over 400 million people in India live below the poverty line. It’s been an eye-opening experience so far, especially seeing how some of these people live, but most are okay with it, it’s all they’ve known and they make the best out of it. India is dirty and smelly, but I expected that… it’s definitely something I had to get used to. Every day at the end of the day you pretty much look like you rolled around in dirt, and sticky from sweat, kinda gross actually haha it’s also been extremely hot… don’t think I’ve ever experienced weather like this ever before! Being a woman too, we have to wear clothes that cover both our knees and shoulders, so it’s been interesting, to say the least.
The first day I was in Chennai and did a service project at the Missionaries of Charity orphanage which was founded by Mother Theresa. All the kids that live there either have a mental or physical disability and most were found on the streets. Just knowing what these kids have been through but seeing the smiles on their faces and how happy they were that we got to play with them for a few hours just melted my heart… we brought them lots of toys and gifts, everything from bubbles to coloring books and balls to paddles. They were so grateful! It was so fun to be able to interact with these kids and just knowing that we made their days, it was really special. Later that night I met up with a few of my guy friends on the ship, who had met some locals earlier that day, so we met up with them down in the fish market, which is pretty much the slums of Chennai. I felt like I was in Slum Dog Millionaire (the movie). Shacks, trash, goats, stray animals, more trash, sewage smell… all of these rolled into one are what the slums are like. It’s very sad and at first I was a little uneasy, but everyone was super nice and just very intrigued to see Americans because most have never seen “white” people in their entire lives! We were invited into some of these Indian’s homes and got to meet and interact with their families. The first family showed us their church and offered us drinks and we sat and enjoyed each other’s company. I played with this man’s children which were absolutely adorable!!! They sang for us and danced and we took pictures together. It was so great. We went to another man’s house after that where his mother cooked us food, which we ate with our hands, which is what most Indians do, even the rice we ate with our hands haha!! It was a cool experience and so nice for her to cook for us, knowing that it can be a struggle to even feed the mouths of everybody in the family. I felt very fortunate to have been able to experience something like that. They then took us to a bar where we stayed until they closed around midnight, which is when the entire town closes down pretty much and people return to their families and homes. I was the only woman at this bar, because Indian woman don’t customarily drink in India, because they are not allowed. They stay home and take care of the children and that’s it… most don’t have a social life outside those responsibilities.
The second day we hired a rickshaw driver, Jhonny, for the entire day. I bought this beautiful orange and periwinkle silk saree... not sure when I'm gonna ever wear it lol but I'm thinking I might get it tailored into a dress when I return home or maybe use it as a wall hanging. Jhonny brought us to all this government stores which we figured out that if they bring tourists to them they recieve a free liter of gas... all we really have to do is show our faces in the stores and browse, but I managed to pick something up at almost every store haha so I was happy, he was happy, everyone was happy! Also got to Skype the boy too for a couple hours which made me very happy! :) (He's in Vegas right now for spring break...) For lunch we ate at this really good Indian restaurant! I've really started to fall in love with Indian food... it's so damn good!! In between all the shopping we got to see a snake charmer on the side of a random street haha and got to see it fight with a mongoose... so crazy, those things are so vicious! Met up with some other friends later that night and got a hotel in Chennai for the night.
The third day we ventured around Chennai, didn't do anything too crazy... went to this big market, which was like any other market that I've been too on this trip. Walked around, got food and just people watched pretty much. We hopped on a bus later that evening and headed to Cochin which took almost 14 hours... I didn't sleep an hour, I swear, haha I was so exhausted by the time we got to Cochin. We were also all in desperate need of showers lol... I was pretty grimy and nasty. I immediately recognized that Cochin was a lot different from Chennai, much more developed and not as poor, which I came to find out that Kerala, the state that Cochin is apart of, is the richest in all of India. So it made sense! It was really nice... some of the houses were absolutely gorgeous! It was also a beach town, so very tropical and a lot hotter than Chennai, which was the downfall... lol. Stayed at a homestay called Dream Catcher which was so quaint! We had a fun time staying there!! We ventured around Cochin all day, which was a breath of fresh air from Chennai... so quiet and relaxing, not very many people at all. We felt like we were the only people on the island at times haha. We ate at this very secluded restaurant where we got to eat more amazing Indian cuisine. At night we went to see some traditional Kerala Kathakali, which is pretty much this play which is expressed through dance and song. The custumes, make-up and movements of the "actors" were very beautiful, it was a cool experience! Went to a bar later that night where we bumped into some European travelers who we chatted with and we also got to witness a man climb up a coconut tree to retrieve fresh coconuts for us... so neat!! Ended up getting lost walking back at night, even though it was still fairly early, because it's pretty much a ghost time after like 11pm and it was hard to make out landmarks to lead us back to our homestay.
Today, my fourth day, I went to the SOS Children's Village, which was a lot of fun. The village is broken up into several different homes where a group of children live with a surrogate mother. Most of the kids are brought here if their parents decide that they can't take care of their children at an early age, usually when they are infants. It's a place that provides their children an opportunity to live a normal life. We got to play and interact with all the kids that live there and I met this 13 year old girl, named Minnu, who was my buddy all day!! She was such a sweetheart and cried when I had to leave... it broke my heart!! Tomorrow I'm going to be taking a riverboat down the Alleppey backwaters which is going to be really cool, I'm excited for it. It's going to be relaxing more than anything, which I'm looking forward to, because I'm pretty exhausted from the past few days of traveling... we leave tomorrow night as well and will be on our way to the beautiful island of Mauritius!!!
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